ray j needs to grow up he need to know that he needs to take a step back from all this and as his self is all this worth it . you had 18 women on two shows and yesterday you acted like what some people think of us african- american men. im not saying the cocktail was right. but that girl loves you as well and you know if you sit down and say to my self what mistakes i made with the first time. and the way you acted on tv was sick and was on uncalled for then for you to say which one would you want between ms.berry and cocktail was wrong you are supposed to be role model. young men and act like real man  then a fool. how would you feel if  guy did brandy or you aunite, or niece like that.